Want to Write? Whats best for you, works for you

Some alternative advice about writing…

Spoiler alert, I’m going to talk about money.

Now that’s out the way, let’s get back to the writing.

People start writing for many different reasons. Some for fame and others for fortune or as a way to make sense of life.

Whatever the reasons you may have for writing. One thing we all have in common is that writing is intimidating.

What do you write about and when?

Do you publish?

What tools do you use?

What platforms are the best to use?

There are so many questions you can ask yourself before you even sit down to write.

Here is the thing though. All that you need, to be able to start writing is inside of you.

If your unsure of the best place to start, pick up a pen and paper. A diary or journal is a great place to start.

It’s a private place to get your thoughts down onto paper. It’s also a great place to start playing around with sentence structure and wording. If you find then that writing is for you, then are plenty of ways to expand.

Whether you decide you want to write a book or share your life and ideas. Then online is a place you will want to be.

Personally, I have a blog and also write on Medium. That gives me the confidence to continue publishing my work.

If you want to write for the public then that’s a big thing to get out of the way. Knowing you will be able to hit the publish button each time is key.

What you write and how often you write? Well, again there is no correct answer here. Except to say that what works for you is best.

The last thing I would say is that with good writing comes editing.

The two tools I use are Hemmingway and Grammarly. Both are free to use.

Hemmingway helps me to keep my writing simple. Grammarly helps me with my spelling and grammar.

Over time both of these tools have helped me to learn and improve.

There are so much advice and self-help out there for us writers. It can all be a bit confusing.

The main thing is to keep going at the pace and with the format that works for you!

The golden harvest at the bottom of my garden

The sweetness of reaping what you sow…

Last week I wrote about the garden becoming a small pleasure for my partner and I during all of this upheaval in our lives.The Simple Life — Gardening Our Secret PleasureWhether you have limited room in an apartment or balconymedium.com

What I didn’t write about though, was the best part of growing all this stuff.

Harvesting what we have grown. Enjoying food we grew ourselves and trying new ideas.

Again whether you have a small growing box in an apartment or you have a garden. The limits are those you set yourself.

We are lucky we have a few fruit trees and enough room to grow a lot of veg.

We have cherries, apricots, strawberries’, pumpkins, tomatoes, peppers, and potatoes all doing their thing.

The summer started with the strawberries. Now we are onto the cherries and apricots. Soon enough they will be gone and the tomatoes will take center stage.

We also have a few vines which we rescued in spring. If we are lucky we will have some grapes this year as well.

Despite the harsh winters in Central Asia, we get about 6 months of the year where we can enjoy the garden.

The simple life

Life is full of pressure, stress, and uncertainty. Modern life takes a toll on us that’s for sure.

I get to spend an hour a day outside with no distractions. At that time right now when I’m picking our fruit. It feels like an eternity.

I can breathe, I can think, I can enjoy the silence.

It’s my time uninterrupted by social media, by email or WhatsApp or anything else.

There is a joy and freedom in that time that’s hard to express.

Is this the 1920s or the 2020s???

I’m so used to going and buying what we need. When you pick what you grow the options are endless.

In the last few weeks, we have been enjoying our produce.

Jams, fruit juices, pies, preserved fruit. These are things we have been able to make ourselves.

I can see why in the past people took so much pride in what they could make themselves. It’s simple, fun and the pride of making it yourself makes the end product taste much sweeter.

There is also an opportunity to learn new skills. Anything from pasteurization to making Kilner jar mechanisms and seals.

Its been great fun.

It brings us back to the circular economy our grandparents knew

One cherry tree, for example, is going to produce more cherries than you could ever want.

Trust me, we are over cherries. Next week I can guarantee I’ll say the same thing about apricots.

What we can’t or won’t preserve is given to friends. It’s great, in return we get some beers, or some volunteers to come to help us out.

Young kids of friends and family get to see and taste nature in action.

No money passes hands and why should it. This is about sharing what we have with each other.

What’s next?

For us next on the horizon it’s the turn of the vegetables. If we are lucky we may also see some grapes.

Other than that it’s just continuing to learn.

Maybe we will make some more room for planting as we are maxed out at the moment.

Other than that, the plan is to enjoy this time.

If we hadn’t been stuck at home so long this year. The garden would have remained a place to sunbathe.

Today its a sanctuary to work, learn and relax in.

Maybe we will make some more room for planting as we are maxed out at the moment.

Other than that, the plan is to enjoy this time.

If we hadn’t been stuck at home so long this year. The garden would have remained a place to sunbathe.

Today its a sanctuary to work, learn and relax in.

What more could we ask of life?

My old friend jet lag

A poem about long haul travel

Zones in time,

there’s 37,

that’s just fine.

Jet lag, Jet lag, Jet lag,

your the villain of the skies

downside of travel I despise.

Each time zone is a blessing,

taken one by one each day,

but when jumped by aero plane,

the effects are here to stay.

Jet lag, Jet lag, Jet lag,

your the villain of the skies

downside of travel I despise.

There are ways to beat him,

I have to say that’s true,

but when you long haul travel,

jet lag’s waiting there for you!

Time

A poem about the world

Time is a friend,

from the beginning to the end,

sometimes slow, sometimes fast,

a companion to the last.

Through the ups,

through the downs,

clock face moving round and round.

It’s a constant you can’t chase,

take it’s value from watch face,

creation of the human race.

Whether rich or poor,

time comes marching through the door,

you can’t stop it’s constant march,

life’s a blast but not meant to last.

The circular economy, a concept as old as time

New definition, ancient practice

The definition of a circular economy today is:

An economic system that aims to reduce waste and promote the continual reuse of materials.

That’s a difficult sentence to digest huh?

The reason is simple. The world of capital investment has taken a concept as old as time and given it a name tag and a shiny suit.

In reality when its stripped back the circular economy is:

Reusing and recycling anything designed for one use into something different.

Today there are some great examples of the circular economy in action.

The folks buying and selling vintage clothes. Anything made from recycled materials. The trend for “upcycled” furniture etc.

These are all great examples of the circular economy.

It’s not something new

In the recent past, this was the way of life. Anything and everything was reused and recycled.

The term recycled wasn’t used of course, but that’s what was happening.

Clothes, toys, and books passed down between siblings and relatives. Yeah, that’s the concept in action.

If you ever sent time with grandparents who never threw anything out. They were living by the concept also.

What changed?

As we became richer in the ’60s and ’70s, the world moved to the globalized model that it runs on today. We had disposable income.

Once we had disposable income, the world got smaller. We could travel cheaply and so could consumer goods.

Even expensive luxuries like consumer electronics became throw away items.

By the turn of the 21st century, the circular economy was gone. We had become a throw-away society.

20 years later things are changing again

We have come to realize that the values of re-use and recycle so important to our grandparent’s are important to us.

It’s not some grand financial philosophy, it’s simply doing more with what we have.

The more we re-use and recycle our plastic products, for example, the less waste we produce. The less plastic we use the less we spend on those products.

The less waste we generate the lower the cost of clean up and disposal. This is just one example but its a powerful one.

Next time you read about the new and exciting circular economy. Remember its an old and powerful friend.

All we have done is redress it in a new and shiny suit.

Drowning in plastic — The true cost of bottled water

The hidden cost of our bottled water addiction

Plastic

Most of us in 2020, are aware of the issues.

There is more and more plastic waste each year. The majority is never recycled.

Most of think of those things that hit the news. Plastic bags, food packaging, and Styrofoam cups for example.

There is a much bigger contributor to this issue, one that is never considered.

Bottled water.

There are over 50 billion 1 liter bottles of water sold each year globally.

That’s a huge amount of plastic waste. I get it, in lots of places either the tap water is unsafe, or confidence in it is low.

Consuming bottled water in 1-liter bottles, while convenient is killing the environment.

So what’s the solution?

It depends on where in the world you are.

Bottled water will never go away. There simply isn’t access to clean drinking water for us all at the source.

But if you’re lucky enough to live somewhere with clean and safe drinking water. I’ll use Scotland as an example. Why would you pay for water that comes from the same place as the stuff coming out of your tap?

The sad fact remains that most of those 50 billion bottles consumed are by people with no access to safe water.

One solution is, we increase water carrier size to 3 gallons or 13.5 liters and make those returnable for reuse.

If we did that then the total amount of plastic bottles required would reduce by over 90% to 3.7 billion.

Those same bottles can be recycled material. They can also be reused many times.

If we adopted this strategy. We could avoid one of the real issues in the environment today which is becoming harder to solve each year.

Water is the stuff of life. It’s essential for our survival.

The issue is that because we have to package water to be consumed outside of the tap water system, we create waste.

Plastic waste in the environment is a growing issue. There are some solutions to it. But what always surprises me are some of the hidden causes.

Bottled water is a great example of that!

Humans solve problems, we adapt and we change. We solved the water problem for a lot of the world, the next step is to solve the plastic waste issue that comes with it.

The simple life — Gardening our secret pleasure

Anyone remember the simple life?

The sit-com where a couple ditch the corporate life and become small scale farmers?

While they went all in, there is no reason that we can’t dip our toe and enjoy the same benefits.

Sometimes the simple pleasures in life are the best.

Spending time outside, and growing things is hugely enjoyable.

Being able to eat what you grow is also great. The result of that hard work always tastes sweeter.

Especially today when we can’t pursue a lot of our other hobbies. Its been a huge amount of fun growing fruits and vegetables.

We also rescued the abandoned grapevines and gave them a new lease of life. If we get some continued good weather, a bit more rain and some luck we should have grapes to make some wine.

Sitting at home, not being able to exercise as much as we would like, it can be hard.

Whether you have limited room in an apartment or balcony. Or your fortunate to have a garden.

Its great fun, a simple activity that’s harder work than you might think.

A de-stressor, exercise, and food production all in one.

If you have been looking for some inspiration to try something new. I can really recommend some gardening.

Its been a secret pleasure of ours since the spring. Now that we are enjoying the fruits of the labor, I think its time to share it.

The future’s bright, the future’s a robotic cleaner

We just bought a robot vacuum, it solves so many issues…

House chores some people hate them, some people love them. Either way, I can think of much better things to do with life than cleaning the house.

That may be a terrible statement but its true. I was a spoiled child who got to skip household chores. That means today I rebel against the idea of me cleaning.

My partner is the opposite and had house chores during her childhood.

Cleaning duties in our house are sometimes like war.

Until yesterday I had two main tasks in the house.

  1. Washing dishes
  2. Vacuuming/Washing floors

I know it isn’t much and I can’t complain.

Still, there has to be a better way. It’s not like cleaning adds value to our time after all.

There are only 2 of us, so when you take the energy consumption of the dishwasher into our lives. It’s not a worthwhile trade-off.

Besides washing dishes from 2 of us, takes 5 minutes.

It’s the vacuuming and washing floors that need to go.

Not just because I hate them. I’m human and so far from consistent.

The solution may have arrived…

Again there are only two of us. Neither of us grew up particularly wealthy so no cleaner. We don’t feel that’s the correct choice for us.

Instead, we welcomed a new robot vacuum and mop into the house.

Already it’s proved its value. No more lost time, or time doing something we are not interested in, and no more inconsistency.

Once our cute little robot has been around the room once, it built a map. After that tell it which room its in and walk away.

After it has mopped or vacuumed it sends a notification.

It’s a fantastic little thing and a huge time saver.

Why???

Yes I know it sounds like a waste of money, but its build to the same standard of a high-end vacuum. It costs a similar amount of money, and I don’t need to drag it around.

Life is busy, things that bring us no joy get in the way.

We work, we have hobbies. Anything that gets in the way gets cut.

This is an extension of that outlook on life.

The future is here, it’s robotic, what an interesting time to be alive!

Music, the soundtrack to the journey of life

How music frames life and memories as we move through life

Music, its a funny old thing.

So emotive, ever changing. Its also how most of us express ourselves.

How we dress. What culture we follow. Our outlook on life. They are all traced back to music.

Through the course of our lives, the soundtrack changes with us.

Music can affect our mood and our memories.

In many ways its magic and that soundtrack can do many important things for us.

It trigger’s our memories

Music forms a bond to our memories in the brain.

A certain song for example can take us straight to a certain place in time.

Its a time stamp for the up’s, down’s and milestones of life.

When music triggers a memory, it can also trigger the emotions, sights and smells that go with it.

When we replay those memories in our minds, they are much stronger when linked to the music we are hearing.

This is one of the reasons that music can be effective in helping people with Alzheimer’s or Dementia.

It helps people connect to their memories and improves mood amongst other things.

It can shape our outlook on life

Life is unpredictable. Its a journey and an adventure.

Over a lifetime there are more up’s, down’s and bumps in the road than we can count.

When these changes happen in our lives. Music can be a great comfort.

The lyrics empathize with our situation, the music surrounds us and comforts us. It’s familiarity helps us to make sense of the big events in life.

Almost nothing else has the same effect on our mood and emotional state.

Our tastes expand and so does our outlook on life

As time marches on, the soundtrack to our lives evolves. The music we listen to changes.

We explore new genres, new artists, new formats.

When we do that, we also tend to explore the culture that goes with that new music.

As the soundtrack evolves so do our interests and our outlook on life.

Of course reading does the same thing, but music is the more accessible medium of the two.

Final thoughts

Music, its more than something we only listen to.

It adds color and context to our lives and gives us stronger bonds to our memories.

As we go through life, we have this great resource to help us navigate the journey.

When we get to the points where want to take a look behind us. That process can be greatly improved by using the soundtrack of our life to view those memories.

Taste breakers — Music that engages your brain

A change can be as good as a rest

’m a massive music fan. To the point that music is essential to my day.

The problem with that is that music can also be very distracting for me. While I’m happy to try and listen to anything once. I do tend to rely on the same old stuff while I’m working.

I get distracted or end up focusing on the music instead of my work. Neither is a good outcome.

I’m not alone here, its an issue for many of us. Over the past few weeks, I have tried three strategies to see what might work well for me.

No music

Yeah, this is as boring as it sounds.

Going through the day with the sound of silence in the background is not my idea of fun at all. I tried this for 3 days and gave up.

No music was if anything more distracting. It was very hard to focus on my work. I found myself looking for other things to do.

The conclusion from this very short experiment?

Working from home, music gives me the noise and external stimulation my brain is used to at work. I’m not designed to work in silence.

I soon moved onto experiment number 2

Binaural beats

This is essentially music designed to help you focus. Played through headphones with different tones, frequencies, and beats in each ear. It’s designed to stimulate the brain.

While it’s very similar to electronic dance, it did nothing at all for me.

Well, that’s not quite true it did give me a headache. Again tried using Binaural beats for 3 days.

While they did increase my focus and reduce distraction. I couldn’t get over the headache issue.

So an improvement and I would recommend trying them out. They just weren’t the solution for me.

I then moved onto experiment number 3

Taste breakers — Something different

Anyone who has ever used Spotify (Other streaming providers are available), will have seen this feature.

Its a playlist of music you would never normally listen to.

This is what has worked for me.

I don’t know the music so its in the background giving me the noise and stimulation I need. But none of the familiarity which leads to distraction.

Ok, more than once I have heard something that I had to investigate and learn more about.

On balance though this is working for me. Listening to jazz or opera or electric swing in the background is doing the trick.

I’m 6 days into this experiment and so far it’s working.

Conclusions

The music is not the point here. How much life changes when we work at home is what has surprised me.

Too often we seek perfection in an imperfect world. I’m used to lots of noise and external stimulation in the background for my brain. Working from my home office AKA the basement. I miss out on that.

While I can replace that noise with something else. There is a chance that what its replaced with becomes a bigger distraction than the silence.

I’m not alone in having this issue. There are many solutions out there. The three I tried were free, easy to implement and ultimately I found a great solution to a big problem.