Great life lesson’s from a movie called “Click”
Lessons from an Adam Sandler movie???
I know, I know…
In fairness it was a Sunday night and there was nothing else on Netflix we wanted to watch.
Christopher Walken is in the movie we thought we would give it a go.
Whats the worst that could happen right?
In the end although its not either actors crowning glory, it did provide us with some thoughts to take away and reflect on and some life lessons.
Not too often you get them in a 1hr 20 family comedy
Can you control life???
In the movie the basic premise is that with a magic remote control for your life, that this is possiblle to a certain extent.
So while there are no do-overs, you can fast forward on auto pilot through the bits of life you don’t like.
We see the main character hit the fast forward button through arguments, meetings, illness, work days.
The lesson: Live in the present, hit the fast forward button and all too soon life is over. Huge chunks of time can go by without you noticing.
Skip the small stuff and miss the big changes
As our character moves forward through life missing all the small “unimportant” stuff as he goes, more of his life is spent in fast forward.
By not living in the present he starts to miss the big changes and milestones in life.
Years pass by in a blur, loved ones die and family grows up and changes.
The lesson: Make time for the small stuff, and learn to enjoy it, it all adds up and adds color and context to the big changes in life as we experiance them.
Where’s the rewind button???
While we can spend too much time in fast forward mode, unfortunately for us in real life just like our lead character found in the movie their is no rewind button.
The lesson: We don’t get the chance for a do-over in life, its what we make of it the first and only time around.
What about a replay button then???
Luckily for us, we don’t need to be in a movie to have the advantage of a replay button.
That’s provided for us by the remote control that we have the ability to click in our brain.
The lesson: While we can’t go back and relive events we can replay them in our mind and learn from them.
Learning from our mistakes is surely one of the most powerful lessons we learn as children.
The power of that lesson should not be reduced as we grow older.
Life isn’t always simple, and of course there are times when we just wish we could hit the fast forward button.
However the joy of life is its many up’s, downs and challenges.
The things we enjoy, the things we learn to love, along with those parts of life we would rather not deal with, they all shape us amd make life what it is.
When things dont go so well, we don’t have a fast forward or rewind button.
What we have instead is a set of lessons we can learn and pass onto the next generation.
Watching them grow and being present for the small things that up to the big steps and changes in life is what counts.
The joy of life and of living is in the small stuff…